May 27 2009
A little chat
Me and the wife have come to the decision that we are going to stop trying for a baby. We have come to this decision because of our donors lack of commitment. After we decided to stop using him, we sat down and had a long chat about where we were at. It turns out that we both are a bit concerned at our ability to support the baby, that kirstys period issues are getting worse and that she is now more onboard the adoption option. Our new goal is to sort out our life so that we could give a baby the best start in life. Possibly adopt in a few years time if kirstys period issues continue or worsen, and to generally focus on just us for a while. So in hindsight, our donors lack of commitment has been a blessing in disguise.
I am sorry this turned out this way. However, you are making a wise choice for the better future of your family. Best of luck to you!